So here we
are, going on our third week back in the mountains and things are going well. I’ve
been a good little girl and have managed to do my homework the night it’s
assigned, versus the night before it’s due like has been my habit for the past
three years. That might change this week when the writing center opens and I
start my volunteer hours. I just hope that our little study groups can continue
in spite of this. 7 to 9 or later, me and two of my favorite ladies in one of
the study rooms in our dorm, doing homework and chatting. It’s oddly productive
and a way for us to hang out. But anyway. My twelve credit hour semester is
going well, and my senior project is slowly shaping itself into something
worthwhile. Cross your fingers!
Am I the
only one who has ever had the thought that college life is so weird? Think
about it for a minute. Most of us live our lives in ways that will probably
stop once we have that degree in our hands. We stay up until 1 in the morning,
get up at 8, go to class, go to work/practice, and then do homework and other
activities at night. Some of us go to “the club” on Thursdays, while others
wait until the weekend. We spend more time with our friends than our own family,
eating dinner every night in the caf, sharing dorm rooms and bathrooms. We
become obsessed with Facebook and music and wearing sweatpants everywhere. Our
suitemates can be our best friends or our worst enemies. We live in a perpetual
state of deadlines and due dates and when’s the next football game and do I
have enough on my debit card to buy that awesome shirt? It is truly a way of
life, a way of living that suddenly explains why some people seem terrified of
graduating and moving on into the “real world.”
I think
there different degrees of submersion in the college lifestyle. Access students
are probably on one of that spectrum, and the party crowds exist on the other
end. I’m somewhere in the middle, along with most of my friends. We are aware
of what it takes to hold down a job and to pass our classes, continuously
working towards that degree and the “real world.” But we still enjoy the
college life, having gatherings that include more alcohol than we’d like to
admit and playing games that result in giggle fits while the latest pop culture
phenomenon plays in the background. It’s a fun and fascinating life full of ups
and downs, and we learn to roll with the punches. And last minute assignments
from professors. First time adventures out of the country, out of state,
learning about things we never even knew existed before, it’s college.
We’re
always up for adding a new person to our circle of friends. We introduce
ourselves and learn about each other, exchanging life experiences and comparing
notes in a way that isn’t quite like any other stage of our lives. Existing in
our own space without our parents or their rules, some of us for perhaps the
first time ever, it’s a fascinating time and lifestyle to be living.
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